The Bible commends David, not once, but twice, as, “a man after God’s own heart” (1 Samuel 13:14 and Acts 13:22).
What does this mean? Without over-analyzing, it means God desired wanted someone to be in tune with his will, someone who would pursue after him with a desire to know him. The Bible makes it clear that this was David.
But why is David given such honor, when his life was filled with multiple significant sinful acts? And why was God so forgiving of David, but so impatient with King Saul?
Sovereignty and Foreknowledge?
One attempted explanation is to assert God’s sovereignty. It is certainly true that God does what he pleases for reasons of his own, but this could be applied to anything God does, or doesn’t do. But let’s not be lazy. We can arrive at God’s sovereignty after careful study, but not before.
Another argument can be offered that God knew that David would be a better choice than Saul, thus dismissing him from the kingship after his transgressions, While God has the ability to look ahead in making his decisions, he is not obligated to do so. This also is an unsatisfactory conclusion.
These two men’s lives are detailed in the Bible for our benefit. There are many things we can learn from their behaviors and God’s responses. To be a person after God’s own heart is to aspire to know who God is and devote yourself to his will and way.
Saul’s Career Limiting Action #1
1 Samuel 13:1-14: Saul was instructed to wait for Samuel to come and offer a sacrifice before going to battle. Samuel was late. Saul took it upon himself to perform the ceremony.
Was it such a bad thing that Saul did? Consider that Saul’s army had no weapons. They were badly outnumbered, and shrinking through desertion daily. From a human perspective, Saul’s actions might even be construed as decisive leadership.
But look deeper. Do you think Saul’s explanation in v11-12 was the truth? Or was he desperate to establish himself in leadership? Saul was using human methods to attempt to achieve spiritual victories. See Zechariah 4:6. Like Gideon, Saul needed God’s intervention to fight the Philistines. Nothing he did on his own would have made a difference.
Contrast Saul’s actions with David’s in 1 Samuel 30:1-8. When the situation was dire, Saul relied on himself; David enquired of God.
Saul’s Career Limiting Action #2
1 Samuel 15:1-26: Saul was instructed to eradicate the Amalekites. He kept the best, and destroyed the rest. When confronted, he offered up numerous excuses until informed he would no longer be king. By then, it was too late for forgiveness.
What was Saul’s motivation for saving the spoil and keeping the king alive? The first seems rather obvious – simple human greed. As for the enemy king, it was not unusual to treat the conquered king as a trophy (Judges 1:1-7). It brought glory to Saul, but in direct disobedience to God’s command.
At the heart of Saul’s classic rationalization responses was a disregard for what God had instructed him to do. God’s Word was just one of a number of options. His heart was not tuned to obeying and pleasing God.
Then There’s David
Traitor: 1 Samuel 21 & 27; he defected to the Philistines on two separate occasions.
Treasonous: 1 Samuel 28; he was prepared to fight against his own country.
Adulterer, Deceiver, Murderer: 2 Samuel 11
2 Samuel 24; 1 Chronicles 21: he numbered Israel, motivated by pride. Numbering was intended to place faith in his army, rather than God.
What’s the Difference?
We saw Saul’s attitude when confronted with his actions. Compare to David:
1 Samuel 24:6: David had a chance to kill Saul, but instead took a trophy of his clothing. Then he felt guilty, because God had set Saul up as king, and David felt he had no right to rebel against him. Romans 12:19
2 Samuel 24:10: David felt guilt for numbering Israel
2 Samuel 12: When confronted with his actions toward Uriah and Bathsheba, David instantly confessed.
David was not an elevated creature or ascended master. Neither was he a soft-spoken sissy. He was an accomplished warrior, with a long history of waging bloody campaigns against his enemies. And, as evidenced by the Psalms, his heart was in constant pursuit of God. He questioned God’s ways. He argued with him. He pondered the ways of God. He had a relationship with God, and when he sinned against him, it mattered.
It is not the mistakes we make that grieve God’s heart and separate us from him. We are dust, and he knows that. It is the rebellion; the rationalizing; the self-justification; the ignoring; the displacing of him in our hearts. Just as in human relationships, it takes effort and desire to know someone. That’s what God wants, and that’s what David did. Saul just didn’t care.
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